My good friend and adopted cousin Gene Chiappetta, professor emeritus from the University of Huston, forwarded to me a link to an article with such title. The author is Bill Stonebarger, publisher of the Hawkill News - a Newsletter for Science and Civic Literacy. In the article, Bill laments the state of politics in America.
"What you believe, the sauce that ties together your political, moral, and social views does matter!", he says. He continues: "Most people who vote regularly or routinely Republican or Democrat don't have much sauce, and they do not think much or do much about what they have."
The article goes on to point out the intra-party fight between Tea Party members and the establishment Republicans, and between the Radical Greens and progressive stalwarts in the Democratic Party. Stonebarger calls our attention to the phenomenon associated with what is popular these days, that is, that ideas are not as popular as sports, styles, or sex. Witness the decline and anticipated demise of two iconic magazines in America: Newsweek and Time.
The article touched a sore spot in my soul. Like many retired colleagues, I have picked up the habit of sharing my political views in my emails with my friends, and frequently I forward news items and articles that target specific political or leisure topics to a selected number. I am also on the receiving side of such mailings. I agree with some, but not all of them. Some I discard immediately because I might find the content over the top for my taste.
Two weeks ago, I emailed an email critiquing President Obama's performance as foreign policy fiascos: North Korea, Iran, Syria, Palestine, Iraq, South Sudan, Georgia, Ukraine. I had the audacity to say that the President was leading from behind. One of my long standing friends and colleagues sent me this angry email: "Stupid juvenile bullshit! You don't have a rational political bone in your body. I can't believe that you are so stupid and blinded by hate. Spare me your nonsense -- you are the fiasco. I have added your email to junk mail - so do not bother me any more." I was deeply shocked and hurt by the missive!
I am one of those people that does not vote routinely Republican or Democrat. Depending on who the candidate is, I evaluate his/her qualifications, approach, and espoused solutions. Although I did not vote for Obama in 2012, I was hopeful that his election in 2008 (I did not vote in 2008 because I was living abroad) would bring about less division and some breakthrough solutions to chronic problems facing the nation. I felt that his success would be our success, and his failures are own too.
I like president Obama as a person and family man. However, I am not in agreement with his "ram-it-through" approach to several domestic initiatives. Does that make me a "hater", as my friend suggests? Not at all!
You cannot willy-nilly accuse someone of hate because you might disagree with his political views. Stonebarger helped me realize that my friend's reaction was the outcome of his off-the-shelf habit-forming political sauce.
Can we disagree without being disagreeable? That is the challenge.